It is difficult to understand what they are thinking or feeling because they speak very ambiguously and in generalities.
Having him say yes or no to something is all but impossible but the word maybe is one of the most used words in his vocabulary. Instead, he resorts to pointing the finger at everyone else. And when he is obviously in the wrong, he still finds ways to brush some of the blame off on you or someone else. Since he lacks a steady job, he rarely has a consistent flow of money coming into his pockets.
Here are some common signs of passive-aggressive behaviors.
1) Vagueness and Generalities– A passive-aggressive partner rarely says what they feel or believe and rarely means what they verbally communicate.
At the same time, this guy has no desire to find a steady job either.
When he talks about his past dating experiences, he’s never mentioned a long-term relationship.